7.30.2007

A Long Day

6am - Jacob climbed into bed to wake me up. I tell him we cannot get up until the alarm clock beeps.

6:15am - Give in to the pounding on my belly, mostly because he has also now woken up Jane who was sleeping / cuddling / nursing beside me. (Rick had already left for work.)

6:30 - 7:30 - Make beds, get kids dressed, start to clean up disaster in basement, that I didn't have the energy for last night (and am now regretting.)

7:30 - 8:30 - Leave Bek with kids to eat breakfast and go to gym to do my knee exercises (which I promised to do faithfully everyday to avoid physical therapy.)


8:30 - 9:15 - Go home, 2 other girls there now too. Shower and get ready to take kids to EFY (Especially for Youth) in Massachusetts.

9:15 - Call the girl I was supposed to pick up at 8:30, and tell her we're running late. Get little kids and snacks into car, get big girls in and realize there is NO WAY all their luggage can fit.

9:30 - Go to hardware store to buy rope to tie 2 biggest suitcases onto roof rack.

9:45 - Head to Carol's house to pick her up. Say a group prayer that we will travel safely there AND back.

10am - Finally on the road, a full hour later than we'd planned.

10:20 - "Maintenance Required" light came on on dashboard. Pulled over, called Rick and had him call Honda. Checked oil (OK) - Honda said probably just because I flipped 30,000 miles and it's reminding me about regular service. Prayed that they are right.

11:45 - Stopped for fries and shakes at Burger King. My kids won't eat anything else there, except a salad - which is just not practical enough for the car. I figured we'd get real lunch after we got there.

12:10 - The rope tying the suitcases to the roof rack broke - the biggest & heaviest suitcase went flying into the middle of a 5 lane highway. Pulled over, got Rebekah to help me (I'm doing well from my surgery, but I'm still not fast & I limp) ran into the road when there was a break in the traffic we grabbed it. The rope said it was good to 100lbs, but in retrospect the suitcase was almost as big as her, and she couldn't pull it, even though it was on wheels. It was probably well over 100lbs.

12:15 - Cram the suitcases in the leg space between the seats, have everyone sit cross-legged to make them fit. Assure them we're almost there and they won't have to sit that way very long.

1:15 - 2:15 - Arrive at the University of Massachusetts. Get 4 girls registered, stuff lugged upstairs and into dorm rooms, councillors found -- trek back to car with the 3 little's.

2:30 - Stop at Fabric store I had previously looked up online. There was also a Whole Foods and Target there. So I got the kids something else to eat, and let them run around and play with the toys in Target and stretch their legs a little.

3:45 - Start driving home.

5Pm - Sit in rush hour traffic during a major thunderstorm, creep along highway and past overturned giant truck (blocking 2 lanes) and wish we hadn't stopped at Target so we were ahead of this mess.

6:30pm - Realize I probably missed the turn off for the Merritt Pkwy in the storm and the kids are starving. Pull into the Yale Hospital complex and have dinner at Subway.

7:20 - Back on the freeway, realize I was going to buy gas while we stopped for dinner.

8pm - Gas light came on - stop in Darien to fill up. Emily laughed for about 10 minutes saying "I smell gas." She thought she was pretty hilarious. I was too tired to care.

8:45pm - Arrive home. Thanks goodness Rick was home from work, and helped get the kids bathed and into bed, since they were totally melting down!


So now I'm resting, and icing my knee and feeling thankful that the flying suitcase didn't hit a car behind me, or cause an accident - and also thankful that I don't have to go get them on Saturday. I think next year we'll leave early in the morning, and I'll stay in a motel for the day / night and let the kids swim and break up the trip a little OR I'll volunteer for pick-up and Rick can go get them without the little guys on the Saturday.


So, here's my question for all of you. We travel a fair amount, and more often than not with all the kids (even when it's without Rick, it's with all the kids.) The hardest part for me is the food while en-route. My kids don't like fast food (well, Rebekah does, but not really the others) and they don't like sandwiches - unless they're made fresh. Emily doesn't eat fruit, and Jacob and Jane eat it only if it's cut up into pieces. Warm, smushed, been-in-the-car-all-day fruit is disgusting anyway - so WHAT DO I FEED THEM? Most often I end up going into a grocery store and buying yogurt and plastic spoons (or I often carry spoons with us for just this reason.)

Of course, there's bunny grahams, raw carrots, peanuts (don't tell the pediatrician I'm feeding Jane raw carrots and peanuts), veggie sticks, pirate's booty, etc - but they're all snacks - not really a meal, and mostly carbs.

I need new ideas - what healthy, easily transportable food do you / your kids like?

7.29.2007

Orphan Child

My dear friend, Melissa, is a great influence on me. I learn SO much from her.
One thing I've heard her say a few times is that she judges how good her kids day was, by the ring in their bathtub at the end of it.
Jane had a good day on Saturday!
Outfit provided by the ugly humidity.
Skincare provided by sidewalk chalk & ice cream sandwich.
Hair by Jacob.

7.09.2007

Great Getaway

Sara and her kids left last Saturday, Jeni & her girls the previous Sunday. Cousin-Fest 2007 is over, and it was GREAT fun.
It's been a crazy week. I had knee surgery on Thursday, so knew I only had until Wednesday to get everything all caught up and back into a routine (I think I did - with the exception of my office, of course - it's always a mess.)
While she was here Sara was brave enought to have all 7 kids on her own so Rick and I could have a getaway alone here -

Castle on the Hudson, not far from our home. It was SO wonderful. We did laugh that we escaped for a romantic weekend, and the best part of the trip was the 10 1/2 hours of uninterupted sleep we got (that hasn't happened for me for about 3 years) - I guess that's just the stage of life we're in! We went there because a friend (who owns a restaurant) recommeded it & told us that the food there was good. It was! The restaurant (Equus) was really very good, and it was delightful to take our time eating, talking, and relaxing, and not feel like we had to race home to the kids or a not be too late for a babysitter.
Thanks Sara, you're the best.
I'll post more of our cousin adventures this week.

7.05.2007

July 4th, 2007

Even though all of my children were born here, I don't really think of them as American. I'm not sure why - I guess because they're mine & I'm Australian, so I think of them that way too. However, I do love living here, and (I think I might have mentioned before) I can never make it through "The Star Spangled Banner" without crying .... so here are my kids and some of their cousins in their Independence Day gear, celebrating where we live.
Sara and her kids got her on Tuesday, and that night we headed up to Kensico Dam for a picnic dinner, concert and fireworks. I wasn't sure if my little guys would be scared - I've never taken Jacob to fireworks before. He LOVED it and sat riveted the whole time. Jane was adorable, and loved watching the 1st 15 minutes or so, before he exhaustion got the better of her and I nursed her to sleep. It was a pretty good fireworks display, and I think we'll add it to our list of regular activities.

Today we headed up to Sunnyside - Washington Irving's home. The kids were great & we had a ball. The weather was cool, and breezy and not really humid at all.

There was a great juggler, who then juggled flaming torches. Jacob was ENTHRALLED - I'm not sure if it will prove to have been a good parenting move to let him see that!

Then we did some19th Century country dancing.


And the kids tried walking on stilts
with varying degrees of success
but had a really great time trying
and being helped by Dad.


They also had this game - I'm not sure what it's called, but there's a little boy doing it in every Victorian picture I've ever seen.
Jane was content to play in the rocks,

and walk around the grounds.I'd like to get one of these for home. More challenging than it looks,
and it kept them busy for ages.
We toured the house, and watched them make ice-cream. (They could cut ice in January, and keep it in the ice house until September - amazing.)

Then the kids made paper hats. The previous nights fireworks must have made an impression on Jacob - he was insistent on drawing them on his hat ("Big, go up a sky and POP!")
He also couldn't believe his luck that I let him use scissors!
Kate's was sweet, just like her.
Jane didn't want to be left out, and "colored" a hat too.
After going home to re-group (and put on warmer clothes) we went to the ward picnic - for 10 minutes. Right after I took these pictures the light rain turned into a steady downpour, so we went home to eat our picnic.

After the kids were ready for bed (the little guys were in bed) the rain stopped and we did sparklers.


And that was that! A great day. Happy Birthday America.